The DD reward isn't 'little'. It's arguably the only event truly worth doing. Things are a bit skewed now though because of the large amount of epics that made it into the game due to exploits.
LMAO. When people say dodge, they refer to the special move-out-of-the-way ability that all classes get (except GFs, but they get something even better!). (And no, it doesn't grant invulnerability, not even 'pretty much'. GW2 has that, .5 sec worth of invulnerability frames. NW doesn't need that.) Gee gee.
Yes, that would be great. Most players will want at least 3 configurations: regular PvE, PvE boss fights and PvP. Probably more once raids and larger-scale Gauntlgrym PvP are out.
Of course the queue systems sucks, but generalising that all pick-up players are ninjas is <Not acceptable> and says more about OP than about other players.