Marriage quest pkers
Haden - Dreamweaver
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I realize this request may not be recognized, may not even be acknowledged, but I still would like to make this simple request. Many people who play this game and have gotten married to their real life sweetheart, significant other, spouse or what have you, play this game. Many of the other people simply married for the rewards. But the few of us who have married to our real life sweethearts, some may not have the priviledge to actually see them. Some of these couples are seperated by distance, some may be disabled, others may be fighting in a war, and be spending what little time they have to say their I love you's during this short married daily quest.
My request is very simple, can we attempt to keep Player killing out of the married quest areas? Or, if that is unfeasable, turn MQ NPC zones into small safe zones. Out of respect for those who dont have the opportunity to see our cherrished loved ones up close, for those who are actually in a warzone telling their honeys they love them, and spending the brief few minutes with them they have.
My request is very simple, can we attempt to keep Player killing out of the married quest areas? Or, if that is unfeasable, turn MQ NPC zones into small safe zones. Out of respect for those who dont have the opportunity to see our cherrished loved ones up close, for those who are actually in a warzone telling their honeys they love them, and spending the brief few minutes with them they have.
Good intentions are like peeing yourself in dark leather pants, you get warm feelings inside, but it doesn't show.
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erm you are in a pve server if you dont wanna be pked dont turn on pk mode lol
nothing personal but its kinda silly if you wanna see your love once and dont wanna be killed if you got the option to turn pk mode off and if you are in a pvp server it was your own choise to soz
if its like the cube then im sorry since i wouldnt know since im not married
edit this is in the wrong section toits impossible to always do the right thing we all make mistakes i am not different from that
just try to be a good person
english isn't my native language so there might be a few spelling/grammatical errors in my posts0 -
Wait, what? You want the game to make MQ locations into safe zones because of the following reasons, "Some of these couples are seperated by distance, some may be disabled, others may be fighting in a war, and be spending what little time they have to say their I love you's during this short married daily quest."
I dont know what to say...I was early taught to work as well as play,
My life has been one long, happy holiday;
Full of work and full of play-
I dropped the worry on the way-
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I dont pk, but when it turns into a grunt fest of people calling one another noobs, losers and all other kinds of names in an area where couples can come together. I just think there should be some bit of respect towards that fact is all. Because not everyone has the chance to see their spouse IRL. thats why I say mq areas should be safe zones to kinda hinder negativity like name calling and what not in these areas. It kinda harshes the "I love you" sort of atmosphere that is put in place for said quest.
Its kinda in the wrong spot, pointed at both GM's and playersGood intentions are like peeing yourself in dark leather pants, you get warm feelings inside, but it doesn't show.0 -
erm just put normal or any chat except squad chat off then your problem will be solvedits impossible to always do the right thing we all make mistakes i am not different from that
just try to be a good person
english isn't my native language so there might be a few spelling/grammatical errors in my posts0 -
Haden - Dreamweaver wrote: »Because not everyone has the chance to see their spouse IRL.
I recommend using Skype or whatever instead.
Example: when you are dating someone, you take them to restaurant or cinema. Not the slaughter house or bus stop.Packs World International0 -
I went to do MQ the other day and it was camped first by RPKers, then KoS, then RPKers again. No big deal, waited until they left and did it.
It would be nice if there was no PKing there, but the same as the Valentine's Day event. Some people want to do it, some people want to try to ruin others' fun. Just remember that it's a game and a PK isn't a big deal and it won't ruin any kind of atmosphere. b:victory[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
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If you (anyone)are on a pk server then you have no right to ask any such thing. Pvp is Pvp, you can be killed at anytime, anywhere for any reason. Don't like that, reroll.
As per Pve, you have a pk mode button, don't push it if this offends you.
As for your issue with "coming together" saying I love you" etc....
How someone else affects your marriage quest has nothing to do with you pming your spouse/loved one. Marriage quest areas shouldn't be revered any higher than any other area of the game. A lot of them are already mostly in safe zones.. I really don't see the issue here.
As previously posted, turn off all your other chats if the "noob" calling offends you.0 -
OneHottShot - Heavens Tear wrote: »If you (anyone)are on a pk server then you have no right to ask any such thing. Pvp is Pvp, you can be killed at anytime, anywhere for any reason. Don't like that, reroll.
As per Pve, you have a pk mode button, don't push it if this offends you.
As for your issue with "coming together" saying I love you" etc....
How someone else affects your marriage quest has nothing to do with you pming your spouse/loved one. Marriage quest areas shouldn't be revered any higher than any other area of the game. A lot of them are already mostly in safe zones.. I really don't see the issue here.
As previously posted, turn off all your other chats if the "noob" calling offends you.
you missed my point, which is to be expected. Not everyone has the luxury of Skype overseas. My point, however moot it may be, is that some people dont have the priviledge to see their loved ones, for reasons afformentioned in my header post. The issue is, to try to keep these sections a bit more nice. Pking isnt the issue, the issue is the zone itself, and some minute chance for romanticism with our distant loves whether they be seperated by buisness, War or other unavoidable things.Good intentions are like peeing yourself in dark leather pants, you get warm feelings inside, but it doesn't show.0 -
you really fail to listen do you
if you want some peace and speak your beloved one do it at msn or something if you cant get a headset for skype
this is an mmo violence, QQers and other annoyances are part off it
sry but this game isnt the place if you want to be with your beloved one in peaceits impossible to always do the right thing we all make mistakes i am not different from that
just try to be a good person
english isn't my native language so there might be a few spelling/grammatical errors in my posts0 -
Barbariankev - Heavens Tear wrote: »you really fail to listen do you
if you want some peace and speak your beloved one do it at msn or something if you cant get a headset for skype
this is an mmo violence, QQers and other annoyances are part off it
sry but this game isnt the place if you want to be with your beloved one in peace
Apparently you dont know what its like to be at war and miss your wife...Good intentions are like peeing yourself in dark leather pants, you get warm feelings inside, but it doesn't show.0 -
Dude, go talk to her on msn or something. You have internet (other wise you wont be playing the damned game). Why bother with playing this game if your/other people's lives are so bad indeed? Other people playing the game have nothing to do with you.
Also, PWE does not give a **** if you're dying/in war/disabled, they dont care. All they care about is bringing in the big bucks. Why waste time changing things that dont matter?I was early taught to work as well as play,
My life has been one long, happy holiday;
Full of work and full of play-
I dropped the worry on the way-
And God was good to me everyday.0 -
ok im done with arguing with you OP
you are clearly not gonna listen to me or anyone else who posted in this thread so farits impossible to always do the right thing we all make mistakes i am not different from that
just try to be a good person
english isn't my native language so there might be a few spelling/grammatical errors in my posts0 -
it is unforantely the way it is, turn off local/world chat and problem solved.
the only thing that bothers me is on my current pc some of the skills used freeze me really bad almost to crashing, which means.. failed marraige quest if i do. that is not the pker's fault nor pwi. that is my fail backup computer until i get my better one fixed b:cry[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]0 -
Because I can. Why else fight for something important? Some fail to see the relevancy in my argument, others may. I may also just be foolish to think respect could come from meagerly asking for it for such a minute detail. *shrugs* The fact of talking, and the fact of doing together, are two completely different things. MSN is like talking to a board. but if you add something to it, where you can actually be attached and close, the chat window evolves. You dont really come to terms with it, unless you've been there yourself.Good intentions are like peeing yourself in dark leather pants, you get warm feelings inside, but it doesn't show.0
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Haden - Dreamweaver wrote: »you missed my point, which is to be expected. Not everyone has the luxury of Skype overseas. My point, however moot it may be, is that some people dont have the priviledge to see their loved ones, for reasons afformentioned in my header post. The issue is, to try to keep these sections a bit more nice. Pking isnt the issue, the issue is the zone itself, and some minute chance for romanticism with our distant loves whether they be seperated by buisness, War or other unavoidable things.
You can't see her but you both have the ability to play PWI together? You can't do video phone? Web cam? Yahoo voice chat? Vent? Or even MSN each other without the game?
The issue isn't everyone else, its you. You feel that everyone should change how they play the game to suit your needs. Which I find rather selfish. If you are in PK mode or on a PvP server its your choice. Being "romantic" with your wife shouldn't be revolved around a game anyways. There are many ways you can be romantic in this game that do not involve a 5 minute marriage quest.
For instance the other day I was doing marriage quest. I was kind and waited in line to take my turn. I'm not greedy and realize everyone elses time is worth just as much as mine. But when the couple in front of me insisted to embrace each other, and kiss repeatedly while waiting for their turn.. then when it was their turn they started to buff.. I lost it.
My husband and I took our turn. They got all upset and started ranting. I simply said be prepared when its your turn and it won't be a problem. Everyone in this game can be more respectful to other people.
You want special treatment to sit and hold and kiss your wife in the game, take it. But don't do it on my time... etc.Barbariankev - Heavens Tear wrote: »you really fail to listen do you
if you want some peace and speak your beloved one do it at msn or something if you cant get a headset for skype
this is an mmo violence, QQers and other annoyances are part off it
sry but this game isnt the place if you want to be with your beloved one in peace
Yeah I'm not getting this point either. They can play the game with no problems otherwise. They can get in a safe zone and he can carry and kiss her as much as he wants without bother. I really am not understanding why this one area is such a big deal.Haden - Dreamweaver wrote: »Apparently you dont know what its like to be at war and miss your wife...
Yes, because you are the only one who knows about sacrifice? The only one who has a loved one away at war? The only one who is inconvenienced? Come on man... we all have real life issues and problems please quit pretending like you are the only one. And also please quit thinking you are the only person who is separated by war... because you aren't. Be glad ur wife wasn't in Haiti in an earthquake and she's dead. You have much to be thankful for.0 -
Im not thinking only of myself. Im thinking of friends whom I've been in faction/vent with, people who fear their loved ones wont come back. I spent many a night thinking of them, and their bonds, broken, or regained. Im thinking for people who are in situations like this.
As I said its a MOOT point. But I make said MOOT point, to be respectful towards people who have not a chance to do things like this. Attack me all you want, but Im mearly trying to get some symbolance for such a small detail.
I have yet to fail to listen to what you've said, I realize these things can be turned on and off at the fly, but Im not the only one who's "failing to listen."0 -
OneHottShot hits the spot i think.
I see where you are coming from with this request and you have good intentions.
Personally, I don't think it would be too big of a deal of those areas were made to safe zones but also not too big of a deal that they aren't. As you are probably tired of reading this but...
There are enough solutions to your problem that it is not of dire need to grant your request.0 -
I dont think it would make a dramatic difference either tbh. I just think, that there should be. I dunno, some sort of respect because not everyone does it for "just the exp." My intentions werent pointed at "Just for me." I mean, think if you were on a date and someone ran up to you and punched you in the face at random. Firstly, I'd be funny as hell to everyone around you. Secondly you'd wonder why. Eh, guess I am being selfish.
Im just a romantic at heart.Good intentions are like peeing yourself in dark leather pants, you get warm feelings inside, but it doesn't show.0 -
They didn't make SP a sz why would they make the outside safe?Spoons you will forever be missed in this community0
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Haden - Dreamweaver wrote: »I realize this request may not be recognized, may not even be acknowledged, but I still would like to make this simple request. Many people who play this game and have gotten married to their real life sweetheart, significant other, spouse or what have you, play this game. Many of the other people simply married for the rewards. But the few of us who have married to our real life sweethearts, some may not have the priviledge to actually see them. Some of these couples are seperated by distance, some may be disabled, others may be fighting in a war, and be spending what little time they have to say their I love you's during this short married daily quest.
My request is very simple, can we attempt to keep Player killing out of the married quest areas? Or, if that is unfeasable, turn MQ NPC zones into small safe zones. Out of respect for those who dont have the opportunity to see our cherrished loved ones up close, for those who are actually in a warzone telling their honeys they love them, and spending the brief few minutes with them they have.
PvE mode = ON
Chat Mode = Squad only
Problem solved!Riff - Dreamweaver wrote: »Personally, I don't think it would be too big of a deal of those areas were made to safe zones but also not too big of a deal that they aren't. As you are probably tired of reading this but...
There are enough solutions to your problem that it is not of dire need to grant your request.
Well said ^^I post in forums. This one and others. That's why I post.0 -
Haden - Dreamweaver wrote: »I dont pk, but when it turns into a grunt fest of people calling one another noobs, losers and all other kinds of names in an area where couples can come together. I just think there should be some bit of respect towards that fact is all. Because not everyone has the chance to see their spouse IRL. thats why I say mq areas should be safe zones to kinda hinder negativity like name calling and what not in these areas. It kinda harshes the "I love you" sort of atmosphere that is put in place for said quest.
Its kinda in the wrong spot, pointed at both GM's and players
Did you think about the people who work all day and just want to have some fun when they arrive home? I guess no, you selfish person. Please turn off your pk mode and if you don't want to see other chats, just turn them off while you talk with your honey in whispers, because whispers can be seen in all chat regions.0 -
I was in 'Nam. You don't know what war is.
OP has obviously taken one too many blows to the head, and can only process one idea at a time...give him a while to let go of this one before you suggest other, more sensible ones.
b:bye[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
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Selfish request is selfish.
If I want to PK and call people names in an area where you do MQ, I will do it. I'll be damned if I don't do something just because you don't want me to. I live in a busy household, when I play this game I play it for fun. Not so that I can bend to your every whim and request because, oh noes, you want to be all soppy with the person you married in game.
Don't like it? Do MQ then go to a different area with less players. Hell, if you don't like it that much, don't do MQ, just go somewhere else. Maybe you could act like a smart person and turn off normal chat! I mean, you're in a squad only with your spouse after all, that way the only person you see typing is them!
Genius I tell you.
tl;dr : No, we won't stop doing what we want to do just so you can do what you want to do. We play games for fun, so we can have a break from reality. Don't like it? Tough cookies, deal or GTFO.[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]0 -
Haden - Dreamweaver wrote: »I realize this request may not be recognized, may not even be acknowledged, but I still would like to make this simple request. Many people who play this game and have gotten married to their real life sweetheart, significant other, spouse or what have you, play this game. Many of the other people simply married for the rewards. But the few of us who have married to our real life sweethearts, some may not have the priviledge to actually see them. Some of these couples are seperated by distance, some may be disabled, others may be fighting in a war, and be spending what little time they have to say their I love you's during this short married daily quest.
My request is very simple, can we attempt to keep Player killing out of the married quest areas? Or, if that is unfeasable, turn MQ NPC zones into small safe zones. Out of respect for those who dont have the opportunity to see our cherrished loved ones up close, for those who are actually in a warzone telling their honeys they love them, and spending the brief few minutes with them they have.
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LulZZ - Lost City wrote: »
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my two cents : it is a game, if they want to spend time there are webcams and chat services such as Skype.... where you can like really see your spouse.0
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MQ shouldn't be SZ but should be randomized for everyone.
As more and more couples get married there is longer lines and more stupid fights over 1 or 2 mobs that need to be killed.
If it's randomized the player base is more spread out and the lower levels have a chance to get their quests done sooner then being steamrolled by a pair of lvl 99's that roll up and kill the mobs you need.
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Ummmm... since when Dreamweaver is PvP server?
Because from OP's post i could guess that DR is PvP and every single pkers there just camp on MQ spots waiting for questers to pk them.
*Sigh...* to OP, like many before me pointed you HAVE CHOICE to turn off pk mode and goes blue so no pkers can kill you on regular maps.
And one more thing, you say you do not pking... then WHY for the Snow Hare sake you turned ON pk mode on PvE server?
And to end... if you want to meet your sweetheart in MMO interactive enviroment you can simply move to Second Life where you can have muuuuch bigger interaction options <including extra stuff too b:chuckle b:cute> BUT Perfect World is more or less War Game where pkers have same rights as non pkers and except PvP servers non pkers have options to not become target. b:bye0 -
hmm and here i have been hanging out in OT... looks like i may have a new spot................0
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To OP: Your in a PvE server, stay blue. Nuff siad there.
On the PvP servers: Its a daily quest not a requirement to progess, if you get pk don't complain. If your getting camped then SS and give warning. If camping and grieving commences then report.
I am all for good o'l PvP but some people can just be asses. Usually if your nice and patient the pker will leave of boredom.tatuaje: grinding mobs and zhenning ???
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