It isn't about poor choices, it is about game design making it so that PvE and PvP cannot be feasibly done to your full potential with the same spec. If you make respecs too hard to get, which is NOT what PW did, then you merely encourage people to ignore one part of the game. What PW did, was make respecs expensive, not…
Sorry, but my wizard is almost always first or second on dps charts, oftentimes beating out a TR with ease if there is enough AoE in the fights. Even on runs with much smaller pulls, I'm still pulling a close second. All that while making sure the cleric isn't mobbed by monsters and CCing whatever I can. Admittedly, in the…
Stress testing servers is a key part of any MMO launch. There will always be problems; the worse the lag, ultimately, the better off your game is, because of the number of people interested. Just get over it; it will get fixed. You already got plenty of lag free playtime ahead of the rest of us.