its not being anything about it, theres no being anything but HONEST about it. okay? dont assume you have an emotional connection with the person just because of the text on the screen, not all of us are here to be jerks sometimes things are just too real for people to handle.
lets just hope theyre going to straighten out all of these mismatched LFG parties for queueing, theres no reason you should ever get a group WITHOUT a healer or a tank, let alone one of each.