You know what... you are right. When I come home from work tonight I am going to put others first for a change. Relaxation and fun?, no sir not for me! I am going to pop out my calculator and spreadsheet to make sure I am up to scratch and not a hindrance to others. Thank you sir, for pointing out my selfishness. Please…
Nobody forced you to be a socio-path. It's easy to blame others and the 'system' for your behaviour, but at the end of the day the ultimate fact is that you simply believe you are more important than other people.