Well I am not rude or inconsiderate, and I definitely do not feel entitled to other people's time.. But, because you don't know me. So I choose to ignore your comments. I try very hard to get along with everyone. Even those who say things like you have. See you think I am lazy. But you don't know how hard I have had to work for everything I have ever done. No you "Assume" I am what you think. And I am sorry to say.. You are wrong. mithmyrr. Very wrong. You should weigh your words, and not speak about what you do not nor ever begin to know about the people you are addressing. Just as I don't know you. So I will not judge you. I happen to be a very kind, and caring person, and am full of compassion for everyone. So Please do not think to begin to even know me. And I respect everyone................ Insults... No.... I don't Insult anyone.. I merely was being polite and acknowledging that I know that some of the things I might say will ... well do just what you accused me of doing.. and was apologizing in my own way. I apologize to you and everyone else.
First, I'm going to reiterate that you leave your current guild. This statement is a horrible thing: "I get that from my alliance members that my IL is not up to snuff with where they are, and I sure don't need that from those who are not in my alliance." The truth is that statement is backwards. Your alliance members should treat other members with respect, more respect than you should get from strangers. No matter what you or I think about each other, if your alliance treats its members that way, you should probably leave and find another, less toxic environment to play in.
I did not assume who you are, I came to a conclusion after you said you didn't feel entitled to other peoples time, while complaining that they won't take the time to tell you how to do the Trial or Dungeon (which you also stated you didn't want to be taught). You yourself said you don't have the time to play you would like. Well, guess what? That applies to a lot of people. So if someone wants to get in an RTQ between getting home from work, and making dinner, having to show people what to do eats into their free fun time.
And your entire little thing about "young people" was insulting and rude. It was a statement designed to be rude to them, to put them down. "I don't mean to be rude, but" means that you know perfectly well that you are rude, but you can't bother to take the time to actually not be rude.
So in that spirit, sorry if I called you out on your BS.
The other day I was in PE and I decided to create a group for mToS and a healer gave me + in pm, I analyzed the equipment to see if it wasn't someone with a high level item with not recommended equipment and I saw that he had all the best (I'm not taking mDWP items into account) and put it in the group. We failed in the first boss because he exploded the barrels, but before the second attempt I told the group to stack the red and even kill a teammate so as not to explode the barrel and it worked and we advanced. In the second boss came the confirmation that the player was a beginner in the dungeon that I consider the most difficult in the game, he didn't know how to position himself with the red circles and he didn't know what powers to use to cure the ghosts, with tips he did well and we advance again in the second round. Upon reaching the last boss, he was given tips on what to do, in that part he failed, normal for a first time. We failed for an incredible 1 hour and as I was having a bad day, I decided to abandon the dungeon since I had completely lost patience and the concentration.
So the problem is not just about numbers, but about lack of knowledge.
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greywyndMember, NW M9 PlaytestPosts: 7,158Arc User
We learn by doing.
I'm not looking for forgiveness, and I'm way past asking permission. Earth just lost her best defender, so we're here to fight. And if you want to stand in our way, we'll fight you too.
I wish someone would let me learn by doing, I can't get anyone to play mtos with me, when I first posted this it was in the spirit that it isn't really fair for someone to be put like in the Lair of the Mage with min. stats. I can finish that now just fine (still hate that worm) but it was just an exercise in frustration and embaressment for the longest. Anyhow I still want to play the Mtos and can never get it on a random queue.
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greywyndMember, NW M9 PlaytestPosts: 7,158Arc User
We've run it in Alliance, Jana.
I'm not looking for forgiveness, and I'm way past asking permission. Earth just lost her best defender, so we're here to fight. And if you want to stand in our way, we'll fight you too.
I was wrong. When you are trying to take care of a love one who is ill. You tend to not think right. not an excuse for my behavior. But I was wrong in saying "young people" What I should have said was that taking care of someone you love in RL and bringing my frustrations into here is not right. I am frustrated with the medical care that they are receiving , but that is still not right for me to express those frustrations rudely to all of you. I am not a rude person. I will stand by that. But my frustrations came across in what and how I expressed them. That is what I want to apologize for. I was not acting correctly and someone called me out for that.. Thank you for doing that.
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greywyndMember, NW M9 PlaytestPosts: 7,158Arc User
Care giving sucks and is hard, no matter how much you care about the other person. I've been there.
I'm not looking for forgiveness, and I'm way past asking permission. Earth just lost her best defender, so we're here to fight. And if you want to stand in our way, we'll fight you too.
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See you think I am lazy. But you don't know how hard I have had to work for everything I have ever done. No you "Assume" I am what you think. And I am sorry to say.. You are wrong. mithmyrr. Very wrong. You should weigh your words, and not speak about what you do not nor ever begin to know about the people you are addressing. Just as I don't know you. So I will not judge you. I happen to be a very kind, and caring person, and am full of compassion for everyone. So Please do not think to begin to even know me. And I respect everyone................ Insults... No.... I don't Insult anyone.. I merely was being polite and acknowledging that I know that some of the things I might say will ... well do just what you accused me of doing.. and was apologizing in my own way. I apologize to you and everyone else.
I did not assume who you are, I came to a conclusion after you said you didn't feel entitled to other peoples time, while complaining that they won't take the time to tell you how to do the Trial or Dungeon (which you also stated you didn't want to be taught). You yourself said you don't have the time to play you would like. Well, guess what? That applies to a lot of people. So if someone wants to get in an RTQ between getting home from work, and making dinner, having to show people what to do eats into their free fun time.
And your entire little thing about "young people" was insulting and rude. It was a statement designed to be rude to them, to put them down. "I don't mean to be rude, but" means that you know perfectly well that you are rude, but you can't bother to take the time to actually not be rude.
So in that spirit, sorry if I called you out on your BS.
The other day I was in PE and I decided to create a group for mToS and a healer gave me + in pm, I analyzed the equipment to see if it wasn't someone with a high level item with not recommended equipment and I saw that he had all the best (I'm not taking mDWP items into account) and put it in the group. We failed in the first boss because he exploded the barrels, but before the second attempt I told the group to stack the red and even kill a teammate so as not to explode the barrel and it worked and we advanced. In the second boss came the confirmation that the player was a beginner in the dungeon that I consider the most difficult in the game, he didn't know how to position himself with the red circles and he didn't know what powers to use to cure the ghosts, with tips he did well and we advance again in the second round. Upon reaching the last boss, he was given tips on what to do, in that part he failed, normal for a first time. We failed for an incredible 1 hour and as I was having a bad day, I decided to abandon the dungeon since I had completely lost patience and the concentration.
So the problem is not just about numbers, but about lack of knowledge.
Care giving sucks and is hard, no matter how much you care about the other person. I've been there.
Our Alliance runs all sorts of stuff, but not really "proper" endgame.
I dont think I have ever run Castle Ravencroft or Tower of the Mad Mage, MTos or the brand new one for example.
Do I care? Not really I can still enjoy what I enjoy and play what I want to play, this is a game, not a job.