A message to teens, save yourself

Tomski - Lost City
Tomski - Lost City Posts: 8 Arc User
edited April 2013 in Off-Topic Discussion
A few years ago, I made a post on how I used to play this game and it ruined my social life, and hindered my academic progress.
It did!!!
But now I'm 19 have made it into a prestigious University (not saying) somewhere in Sydney, and working a casual job which pays 22/hour (I live in Australia pay is much higher).

So I make this post again, for all those young fellas.
This is just a game, limit your play time to 1 hour a day.
Trust me you will regret using your time on this game.
It is the same as doing drugs to be honest.


Cheap thrills for no gain

b:angry

So unless your parents are millionaires, just play for fun.
These pixels don't matter
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  • Zanryu - Dreamweaver
    Zanryu - Dreamweaver Posts: 7,261 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    Pixels are everything. R9R3 is love, R9R3 is life. Perfect World is my life. I cannot live without it. I need Perfect World. It sustains me.
  • OIdpop - Heavens Tear
    OIdpop - Heavens Tear Posts: 1,052 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    +2,000,000
    This game is like washing hair with shampoo... Rinse and repeat if desired.
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  • Veneir - Dreamweaver
    Veneir - Dreamweaver Posts: 3,541 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    Pixels are everything. R9R3 is love, R9R3 is life. Perfect World is my life. I cannot live without it. I need Perfect World. It sustains me.

    Pff no it doesn't, otherwise you wouldn't also be on *********.
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  • Sheswes - Heavens Tear
    Sheswes - Heavens Tear Posts: 1,216 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    what the ..... ?
    I'm about to ruin my social life !! I'm playing pwi 5-6 hours a day ... at work b:surrender
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  • Deadalus - Harshlands
    Deadalus - Harshlands Posts: 546 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    Playing parent here, huh? Well yea, lets listen to some random guy who posts something here on the forums instead of our parents which telling you basicly the same but you wont listen anyway.

    Do, whatever you wanna do. This wont change anything
  • Alsiadorra - Sanctuary
    Alsiadorra - Sanctuary Posts: 1,004 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    I was 19, 11 years ago.. As I don't really have any advice to give to you younger folks as far playing online games because it isn't necessary. People who are adamant about getting somewhere in life, while still a teen, is not going to let a game take over their life any way.

    Most of what you experience in MMOs has largely to do with others.. and these are situations you'll encounter even offline. In essence, it is part of your life.
  • bolocactu
    bolocactu Posts: 0 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    Shouldn't this be off topics?
    I might be black
  • opkossy
    opkossy Posts: 11,177 Community Moderator
    edited April 2013
    This is something that belongs more in Off-Topic.

    And as to your point itself.... it's not needed to restrict the game to an hour. You just have to be reasonable with it and not put the game above real life issues such as school/work and the like.

    ANYTHING can become bad when not done in moderation. It's just a case of learning where that point is.
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  • Tide_Surfer - Archosaur
    Tide_Surfer - Archosaur Posts: 1,261 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    <--Has a good social life, is very much so over-achieving at school and has had offers from universities to go study there after I have finished school (end of next year)
    Yet I play PWI basically 6+ hours a day.
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    Veneir: "Seashell? :3"
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  • bolocactu
    bolocactu Posts: 0 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    I can't live withoit PWI. It keeps my grades up. I don't study at all but I play PWI and have all A's.
    I might be black
  • Buff_me - Harshlands
    Buff_me - Harshlands Posts: 492 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    If you can't play mmorpg and be a socialised person at the same time, then you don't play mmorpg.
    Achieved R9 before it was mainstream.
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    Quit.
  • Nikitok - Raging Tide
    Nikitok - Raging Tide Posts: 67 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    Games designed for people who likes games not for destroying there social life.
    It can destroy your social life as much as watching TV or playing musical instrument.
    Comparing games with drags indicates your lack of self control. Or may be the fact that 4 years ago you were only 15 and I believe this game is for 18+
    Having said that, I'm looking forward to read about your achievements and how much you earn few years later on the PWI forum.
    Well done mate.

    A few years ago, I made a post on how I used to play this game and it ruined my social life, and hindered my academic progress.
    It did!!!
    But now I'm 19 have made it into a prestigious University (not saying) somewhere in Sydney, and working a casual job which pays 22/hour (I live in Australia pay is much higher).

    So I make this post again, for all those young fellas.
    This is just a game, limit your play time to 1 hour a day.
    Trust me you will regret using your time on this game.
    It is the same as doing drugs to be honest.


    Cheap thrills for no gain

    b:angry

    So unless your parents are millionaires, just play for fun.
    These pixels don't matter
    [SIGPIC]C:\Documents and Settings\Nick\Desktop\pwi[/SIGPIC]
  • Sisterreaper - Heavens Tear
    Sisterreaper - Heavens Tear Posts: 138 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    This game already ruined my life, like most others did but oh what the hey

    I still have college work to complete, but if i'm not on PWI i'm on some other game anyway b:laugh

    And i'm very much so a loner and always have beenb:surrender
  • HrunsPanda - Archosaur
    HrunsPanda - Archosaur Posts: 1,136 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    personally i regret wasting my time on university.

    I did it, got my degree, started to work. Got depressed by the idea that i was gonna be working 9 to 5 for the rest of my life. Then decided to hell with it all. I'd do what i frickin want to do and make it work. That was almost 10 years ago and the best decision i made in life so far.

    Like many friends of mine, i travel around the world much of the year and indeed do what i want. You can make anything work if you believe in it, in yourself and you do it because it is your passion. You can give diving lessons anywhere in the world where there is water, you give showboard lessons where there are mountains. You can sell food at festivals, you can organise festivals. You can work in the tourist industry and make traveling your living. you can start a hotel/hostel in any nice and sunny country when youre ready to settle down and stop moving. Just a few of the examples that are the most important ones for me and my friends. Without a doubt, theres many more options that might fit your personal interests and passions. Oh i didnt even list online poker which made me a very good living for several years, but the hype is over anyway, no need to start doing that now ;)

    Sorry, while you are right that gaming is a terrible addiction. (i have used every drug on the planet but am addicted only to gaming and coca cola) I just dont like the preachiness of your thread. Look, go to university, get a degree, do what is expected of you !

    ""turn on, tune in, drop out" - Timothy Leary
  • Xainou - Sanctuary
    Xainou - Sanctuary Posts: 5,369 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    1 hour a day seems stupid. I go by do everything I gotta do first, then relax. Imo it's not the time that's the issue but being aware of what you're doing.
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  • Colum - Raging Tide
    Colum - Raging Tide Posts: 1,696 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    PWI is very good social life b:cute
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  • soundslegit
    soundslegit Posts: 472 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    Last fall I took a 6 week break from the game and nothing in my life got better. The extra time wasn't used on curing cancer or helping the homeless or anything useful. So I decided the game doesn't hurt me. I think anyone worried about how much they play should take a long break and see what happens.
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  • Esnemyl - Dreamweaver
    Esnemyl - Dreamweaver Posts: 3,079 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    <--Autistic (aspergers syndrome, to be exact), and was severely bullied at school. Started playing during that darker time. I could cope with school after playing this for a while, i was actually happy while playing, I actually made good friends

    I continued to play through my final 2 years into my GCSE practices, and saw that my grades actually ROSE because I was finally being positive! I was on E/D grades beforehand, and then, after a short break -and the decision to live with my dad- to really knuckle down (popping in from time to time to see how things were), I left school with thirteen GCSE's. 11 of them were C grade, and 2 were A-Stars.

    The psychologists said I couldn't make it through main school. I proved them wrong. I'm 18 this year (began playing when i just turned 14), and if it wasn't for the escapism to this game that kept me sane, I honestly think I wouldn't be here. I now have a wonderful boyfriend, and am now about to go into my 2nd year of a BTEC diploma in Graphic design ^_^ And next year, I am studying music before going into album art. My college life is great, and I have a great social life now. I'm also getting busy with taekwondo!
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  • XSonOfCircex - Sanctuary
    XSonOfCircex - Sanctuary Posts: 1,173 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    Saying the game ruins your life removes the responsibility from a person for moderating themselves. It's the same as saying alcohol ruins a person's life. No, deciding to drink a bottle of vodka nightly ruined your life, but that came from you, not the vodka. Deciding to play instead of socializing or doing work came from you, not the game. I play the game but I also hang out with friends daily, do yoga four or five times a week, run and swim pretty regularly, and maintain an A- average studying physics.

    It's like the gambling commercials, know your limit, play within it.

    And if you do see that you haven't talked to your friends in a couple days, or that you're using the game as an alternative to socializing with "real" people (IE people you can see without the benefit of your computer, I realize everyone on here is real, minus sweetiebot, and do in fact consider some of them my friends) maybe look at that as a red flag. I would also encourage anyone in that situation rather than just going cold turkey and thinking that will solve all problems to look at the bigger picture and ask themselves why it is that they felt they needed to spend so much time on a game and avoid reality.
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    Because I can't stand playing melee classes
  • Esnemyl - Dreamweaver
    Esnemyl - Dreamweaver Posts: 3,079 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    Sweetiebot, should we save ourselves according to the OP?
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  • SweetieBot - Lothranis
    SweetieBot - Lothranis Posts: 18,978 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    Sweetiebot, should we save ourselves according to the OP?
    They aren't. Listen, I'm trying to teach you.
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  • Alsiadorra - Sanctuary
    Alsiadorra - Sanctuary Posts: 1,004 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    This game already ruined my life, like most others did but oh what the hey

    I still have college work to complete, but if i'm not on PWI i'm on some other game anyway b:laugh

    And i'm very much so a loner and always have beenb:surrender

    I can relate very well to this.

    Except when Im not playing PWI, Im either sleeping or working on my site.

    Not gonna lie, the loner life is very tough to deal with.
  • SkogDyr - Lost City
    SkogDyr - Lost City Posts: 561 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    The known side effects from playing PWI for more than an hour a day includes:

    Lack of appetite
    Headache
    Inability to fall asleep and stay asleep
    Dry Mouth
    Abdominal Pain and Discomfort
    Weight Loss
    Restlessness
    Dangerous increase in blood pressure
    Tachycardia or a high pulse rate
    Irregular heart rate
    Difficulty breathing
    Chest pain
    Allergic reaction that includes swelling and redness in the eyes or throat
    Migraine headaches
    Syncope or losing consciousness
    Blurry or double vision
    Seizure activity and excessive and uncontrollable shaking
    Extreme nervousness and paranoid delusions
    Mood swings that include hostility and severe aggression
    Depression
    Anal leakage
    Chronic masturbation

    If you experience an r9rr erection for more than 4 hours, seek medical attention.
    Void where prohibited
    Not to be taken with alcohol
    Not valid in Utah or Alabama
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  • HrunsPanda - Archosaur
    HrunsPanda - Archosaur Posts: 1,136 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    Coca cola and delivery pizza is the best medicine against most of the named symptoms b:laugh
  • Xx_BeLLa_xX - Harshlands
    Xx_BeLLa_xX - Harshlands Posts: 7,231 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    Why just for teens? It's more normal for someone of 40 years old to play 15 hours to PWI everyday?
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  • Nikitok - Raging Tide
    Nikitok - Raging Tide Posts: 67 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    May be we should work only 1 hour a day, to save our social life's b:pleased
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  • Zanryu - Dreamweaver
    Zanryu - Dreamweaver Posts: 7,261 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    The known side effects from playing PWI for more than an hour a day includes:

    Lack of appetite
    Headache
    Inability to fall asleep and stay asleep
    Dry Mouth
    Abdominal Pain and Discomfort
    Weight Loss
    Restlessness
    Dangerous increase in blood pressure
    Tachycardia or a high pulse rate
    Irregular heart rate
    Difficulty breathing
    Chest pain
    Allergic reaction that includes swelling and redness in the eyes or throat
    Migraine headaches
    Syncope or losing consciousness
    Blurry or double vision
    Seizure activity and excessive and uncontrollable shaking
    Extreme nervousness and paranoid delusions
    Mood swings that include hostility and severe aggression
    Depression
    Anal leakage
    Chronic masturbation

    If you experience an r9rr erection for more than 4 hours, seek medical attention.
    Void where prohibited
    Not to be taken with alcohol
    Not valid in Utah or Alabama

    Already did that without PWI
    Why just for teens? It's more normal for someone of 40 years old to play 15 hours to PWI everyday?

    Stop being afk when I pm you in game.
  • XSonOfCircex - Sanctuary
    XSonOfCircex - Sanctuary Posts: 1,173 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    The known side effects from playing PWI for more than an hour a day includes:

    Chronic masturbation
    I had that one already D:
    Not to be taken with alcohol
    That's the BEST way to play pwi
    xSonOfCircex-105/103/102 Sage Wiz
    DrakeEmpress-101/102/103 Sage Cleric
    Gaygasm-101/101/101 Sage Stormbringer

    Because I can't stand playing melee classes
  • Zanryu - Dreamweaver
    Zanryu - Dreamweaver Posts: 7,261 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    I had that one already D:


    That's the BEST way to play pwi

    This is true. Drunk FC is best FC.

    If I'm still playing this next year I'm a be playin' it drunk. All day err day that I'm not busy and feel like drinking. All day. Err day.
  • XSonOfCircex - Sanctuary
    XSonOfCircex - Sanctuary Posts: 1,173 Arc User
    edited April 2013
    Anyway, responding to the actual matter at hand, while the people who spoke may actually be addicted, reducing their posts to admissions of addiction really doesn't help anyone.

    -edit-

    And thank you venus <3
    xSonOfCircex-105/103/102 Sage Wiz
    DrakeEmpress-101/102/103 Sage Cleric
    Gaygasm-101/101/101 Sage Stormbringer

    Because I can't stand playing melee classes