So there's this girl I like....

theblacktruth
theblacktruth Posts: 2
edited December 2011 in Off-Topic Discussion
Haha, I can't believe i'm using the fourms for this but...

b:shocked

Well I'm just your average highschool guy. I like to flirt and mess with many girls. I had no problem with it, well that's until I saw the girl of my dreams again. First time I saw her was about 4 years ago and I never really made any moves for her because I always thought I wasn't good enough(I'm an idiot for that). But now 4 years later senior year I see her a lot more now, still not talking. I say casual things like hi, the point is I still can't talk to her for some odd reason(It's because I like her), I'm thinking I would do a lot better if I got her number then it would build me up to talk to her. The question is would it be weird to ask her friend for her number? and I don't know her friend personally at all.
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  • VenusArmani - Dreamweaver
    VenusArmani - Dreamweaver Posts: 6,009 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    Haha, I can't believe i'm using the fourms for this but...

    b:shocked

    Well I'm just your average highschool guy. I like to flirt and mess with many girls. I had no problem with it, well that's until I saw the girl of my dreams again. First time I saw her was about 4 years ago and I never really made any moves for her because I always thought I wasn't good enough(I'm an idiot for that). But now 4 years later senior year I see her a lot more now, still not talking. I say casual things like hi, the point is I still can't talk to her for some odd reason(It's because I like her), I'm thinking I would do a lot better if I got her number then it would build me up to talk to her. The question is would it be weird to ask her friend for her number? and I don't know her friend personally at all.

    Yes, it would be weird to ask some stranger for their friend's phone number, so that you can use it to hit on her. Just go talk to her.
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  • StormHydra - Sanctuary
    StormHydra - Sanctuary Posts: 2,221 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    What wouldn't be weird

    -Add on facebook
    -Say you lost your phone, or data got wiped or something
    -Invite EVERYBODY to one of those event things where everybody posts their number, because you *lost* your phone.

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  • Waterfal - Sanctuary
    Waterfal - Sanctuary Posts: 2,723 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    Just... go talk to her o.o
    What's the worst thing that can happen XD and I wonder how you know that she's the girl of your dreams if you haven't spoken with her b:lipcurl
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  • HadesHound - Raging Tide
    HadesHound - Raging Tide Posts: 357 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    Yes, it would be weird to ask some stranger for their friend's phone number, so that you can use it to hit on her. Just go talk to her.
    Just... go talk to her o.o
    What's the worst thing that can happen XD and I wonder how you know that she's the girl of your dreams if you haven't spoken with her b:lipcurl

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  • snufalufaguss
    snufalufaguss Posts: 0 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    Dude, don't fall in love with people you don't know.
  • VKnightV - Lost City
    VKnightV - Lost City Posts: 381 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    Dude, don't fall in love with people you don't know.




    ummm wow that is true.

    in a romantic silly movie sure this happen but lol in rl even say you like how she act walk smiles.

    if you do not talk to her the thing you like might as well be a lie.

    we all have thing we well do regret but we have to have the curage to accept fine we did not talk to her at those time but now TODAY i will and just do it man.

    i can tell you for a fact not all men are the hunters some of us male we wait for the female to themself come to us.

    maybe you yourself or one of those ppl and untill now have not noticed it but for this to happen you need to belive more in yourself as woman do not like nervous males.
  • Xinaeco - Harshlands
    Xinaeco - Harshlands Posts: 156 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    I don't believe that you can't fall in love upon looking at the person. :P I knew right away when I saw my boyfriend on my doorstep.

    Actually, we met kinda odd, but i suggest it to build up confidence and to know if she's worth your time. :)
    He added me on facebook through a mutual friend and sent me a message giving me a compliment. We messaged for a while back and forth (about 3 days) before asking for my number and after that, it's history. :3
    Obviously, you can talk to her in real life too, and build up confidence to ask her number. The thing with most girls is, they don't wanna make the first move. Blame it on chilvary. :)
    Also a little bit of nervousness can't be helped, it's actually really cute to know that you can make a man nervous. I made my boyfriend so fluttered on the first date that he forgot his phone and keys at the restuarant, and I can still make him nervous in a good way to this day c:
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  • lvl60togekiss
    lvl60togekiss Posts: 22 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    do not ask her friend for her number lol.
    She will think youre a stalker haha.
    Do yous have anything in common? such as a class together?(low odds)
    But doesnt matter.
    I guess if youre attracted to her, take it slow, build yourself up, get the courage to start a conversation.
    Do you have any friends that are friends with her??

    If you like someone, dont be shy, and dont be scared of rejection.
    Theres nothing worse then losing a chance with someone youre attracted to, to your ego.

    Casual conversation such as asking how her day is, whats on for the weekend, very broad and easy conversation.
    ^^ Starting point.
  • Hideori - Lost City
    Hideori - Lost City Posts: 530 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    Haha, I can't believe i'm using the fourms for this but...

    b:shocked

    Well I'm just your average highschool guy. I like to flirt and mess with many girls. I had no problem with it, well that's until I saw the girl of my dreams again. First time I saw her was about 4 years ago and I never really made any moves for her because I always thought I wasn't good enough(I'm an idiot for that). But now 4 years later senior year I see her a lot more now, still not talking. I say casual things like hi, the point is I still can't talk to her for some odd reason(It's because I like her), I'm thinking I would do a lot better if I got her number then it would build me up to talk to her. The question is would it be weird to ask her friend for her number? and I don't know her friend personally at all.

    AHAHAHAHAHA!! you sure you're highschool guy? cause I'd say you're middle school guy. "hey, look at me, I m in love with somebody I dont even know, but I m too afraid to ask for phone number, so best option here is to make tread about that in PWI forum"

    if you're trolling then +1

    if you not then... get a life..
  • lvl60togekiss
    lvl60togekiss Posts: 22 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    AHAHAHAHAHA!! you sure you're highschool guy? cause I'd say you're middle school guy. "hey, look at me, I m in love with somebody I dont even know, but I m too afraid to ask for phone number, so best option here is to make tread about that in PWI forum"

    if you're trolling then +1

    if you not then... get a life..

    Not everyone has your kind of self esteem, which youve seemed to of obtained by belittling others lol. gg.

    /arrogance
  • Mururmaruzh - Lost City
    Mururmaruzh - Lost City Posts: 6 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    Haha, I can't believe i'm using the fourms for this but...

    b:shocked

    Well I'm just your average highschool guy. I like to flirt and mess with many girls. I had no problem with it, well that's until I saw the girl of my dreams again. First time I saw her was about 4 years ago and I never really made any moves for her because I always thought I wasn't good enough(I'm an idiot for that). But now 4 years later senior year I see her a lot more now, still not talking. I say casual things like hi, the point is I still can't talk to her for some odd reason(It's because I like her), I'm thinking I would do a lot better if I got her number then it would build me up to talk to her. The question is would it be weird to ask her friend for her number? and I don't know her friend personally at all.

    no chance for you b:bye you better just forget it and play PWI b:victory
  • Esnemyl - Dreamweaver
    Esnemyl - Dreamweaver Posts: 3,079 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    Just go up and talk to her :) thats the easiest way to get her complete attention.
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  • XRazr - Archosaur
    XRazr - Archosaur Posts: 1 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    I hear ya bro!
    Listen... I have been in this situation many times and what you should really depends on what to do, go out on a date, get her number, or just get to know her! Try this!!!

    If you want to date her:
    Invite her to a movie with some of your friends(and some of hers!) See if she want to "tag along"!! If this works keep using the "tag along" method and get to know her!! Then when you feel the time is right! Ask her out!!!!b:cute

    If you want her number:
    Use the above techniques!!!
    (they work!!!)

    and above all BE A GENTLEMAN!!!!! any girl loves a man who will respect her and love her unconditionally!!!

    Good Luck!!!!b:victory
  • Decus - Dreamweaver
    Decus - Dreamweaver Posts: 5,033 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    Just forget it. She'll do what any woman does and rip your heart out, stomp on it a bunch, and then give it back to you while running away with another man.

    Yea, I'm totally not bitter. b:cute







    But really, just talk to her. Then you'll know whether it's even something you want to consider :3
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  • Alsiadorra - Sanctuary
    Alsiadorra - Sanctuary Posts: 1,004 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    I think you should just go talk to her. You never know..