Ex-boyfriend Forum

lovely1025
lovely1025 Posts: 1 Arc User
edited December 2011 in Off-Topic Discussion
Hello everyone,

Can somebody help me on how to get back my ex-boyfriend?
I been doing everything I know but I did not succeeded in
getting him back. Please give me some advises on what to do.

Thank you.b:pleased
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  • fullybliss
    fullybliss Posts: 3 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    Just move on. b:surrender
  • snufalufaguss
    snufalufaguss Posts: 0 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    LF heart broken suga momma to help me find love and gears.
  • QuietKitteh - Lost City
    QuietKitteh - Lost City Posts: 116 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    learn to see where you put your thread? this isnt a beginner guide...
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  • chaoticshelly
    chaoticshelly Posts: 0 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    Moved to the Off-Topic discussion, feels more appropriate here...
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  • HadesHound - Raging Tide
    HadesHound - Raging Tide Posts: 357 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    My advice... if he cannot take you back, then you deserve to find someone in your life better for you.
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  • Hideori - Lost City
    Hideori - Lost City Posts: 530 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    lovely1025 wrote: »
    Hello everyone,

    Can somebody help me on how to get back my ex-boyfriend?
    I been doing everything I know but I did not succeeded in
    getting him back. Please give me some advises on what to do.

    Thank you.b:pleased

    you dont need boyfriend, you can buy it in sexshop.
  • StormHydra - Sanctuary
    StormHydra - Sanctuary Posts: 2,221 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    Who needs a boyfriend when you have PWI?

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  • Alsiadorra - Sanctuary
    Alsiadorra - Sanctuary Posts: 1,004 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    lovely1025 wrote: »
    Hello everyone,

    Can somebody help me on how to get back my ex-boyfriend?
    I been doing everything I know but I did not succeeded in
    getting him back. Please give me some advises on what to do.

    Thank you.b:pleased

    Leave him alone, move on. Persistence will only make it worse..

    There's millions of men out there...
  • SgtZappOn - Dreamweaver
    SgtZappOn - Dreamweaver Posts: 2 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    Well I always helped my sisters with this problem..
    And just what Alsiadorra tells you, try to move on.

    He'll miss you soon enough. Though most boys are too proud to admit it.

    I've got these tips if you still really love him:

    - If you broke up with him, you broke his heart and there's a very very big chance he won't be taking you back bcuz of that. If you're very lucky, you'll get into a conversation and at the end it's alright again.

    - If he broke upw ith you, you need to give him some space. Just 3 days to let him remember howmuch he needs you. After the days just begin to talk to him again and try to act like you're still best friends.
    Dutch songtekst; Een man weet past wat hij mist, als zij er niet is.
    Translated: A guy won't know what he has, until he loses it.

    Good luck.
  • Alsiadorra - Sanctuary
    Alsiadorra - Sanctuary Posts: 1,004 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    SgtZappOn - Dreamweaver wrote: »
    Translated: A guy won't know what he has, until he loses it.

    Good luck.

    Door swings both ways.

    And there is always the chance to find much better.
  • Hideori - Lost City
    Hideori - Lost City Posts: 530 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    SgtZappOn - Dreamweaver wrote: »
    Well I always helped my sisters with this problem..
    And just what Alsiadorra tells you, try to move on.

    He'll miss you soon enough. Though most boys are too proud to admit it.

    I've got these tips if you still really love him:

    - If you broke up with him, you broke his heart and there's a very very big chance he won't be taking you back bcuz of that. If you're very lucky, you'll get into a conversation and at the end it's alright again.

    - If he broke upw ith you, you need to give him some space. Just 3 days to let him remember howmuch he needs you. After the days just begin to talk to him again and try to act like you're still best friends.
    Dutch songtekst; Een man weet past wat hij mist, als zij er niet is.
    Translated: A guy won't know what he has, until he loses it.

    Good luck.

    once we get it we dont need it anymore. b:shutup

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  • CrusherJam - Dreamweaver
    CrusherJam - Dreamweaver Posts: 550 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    I am assuming this is a true question ( of sorts )

    you should who you are and move on

    the art of self discovery starts with you

    that's my input.


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  • debadobo
    debadobo Posts: 0 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    just tell him
  • Decus - Dreamweaver
    Decus - Dreamweaver Posts: 5,033 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    Alsiadorra - Sanctuary wrote: »
    Leave him alone, move on. Persistence will only make it worse..

    There's millions of men out there...

    This is the best advice given so far.

    My now ex-girlfriend broke my heart by leaving me for another man almost exactly on our anniversary (and this was a long-term, serious relationship). I desperately wanted her back, but I later came to realize that I loved the person she used to be; not the person she is now.

    If you broke up with him, whatever the reason you had, he needs his space. You can apologize to him, but it's up to him to forgive you. That will be very hard for him to do and he may not want you back after that anyway. Give him time (8-12 weeks is what I've been told) and give yourself time. Then you can approach it in a better mindset than right now.

    If he left you, then ask yourself if you really could love someone that did that to you? You may say you know him or know what he feels, but that doesn't make the pain any less. To start over means just that, to start all over. Trust takes a long time to build and seconds to destroy.

    I hope that helps.
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  • _Nerox_ - Dreamweaver
    _Nerox_ - Dreamweaver Posts: 753 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    Maybe his like me, I dont care a single bit for my exes, they can all burn in hell.
    when its over, its over. nothing more to say to eachother.

    ugh, my ex should have been swallowed.
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  • alphablitz
    alphablitz Posts: 0 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    all my exes were worth the break ups....high school sweetheart left me for another guy...college sweetheart same deal. I never looked back but sometimes I would bump into them now and then and chat with them since you know even tho were not together doesnt mean we cant talk to each other still....I then find out the guy they went to after they left me they dumped because they made the wrong decision of leaving me. Still single today since I didnt take them back due to the fact once you leave you lose trust in them. Just move on and wait for the next one to come along and hope its the one. Like they say you go thru a thousand first before you meet the right one.
  • SugaMomma - Sanctuary
    SugaMomma - Sanctuary Posts: 11 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    First of all, ask yourself, is he really worth it?? b:question
    As mentioned, don't become persistent; he will most likely find it annoying and lose even more interest in you.
  • Dralighte - Harshlands
    Dralighte - Harshlands Posts: 1,540 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    Make him a sandwich
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  • lvl60togekiss
    lvl60togekiss Posts: 22 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    There is a chance you wont get him back.
    So im not going to give you false hope incase that is the outcome.

    Firstly you need to realise why he broke up with you.
    Secondly, should let it go for a while, if things are meant to be, itll take its course.

    If you messed up, then gg. (ie, cheated lol)
    If you didnt do anything wrong, chances is he is a jerkwad anyway, and who needs that?
  • Alsiadorra - Sanctuary
    Alsiadorra - Sanctuary Posts: 1,004 Arc User
    edited December 2011
    Of all my ex's only two of them I have successfully stayed friends with, with one of them always hinting at rekindling, and another left the door open but she disappeared for 6 years now. There's another I wish to be friends with, the one I first fell in love with but..well I don't have any say in that. The rest were really terrible and I don't think about them much at all, and would never go back.

    Basically if you've had a huge significant impact on me, I will come back to you. Otherwise, I'm not going to give a damn.

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