New way to pull in fc and place bb?

Ok so I go on this FC run 90+ mostly everyone was higher than 95, consisted of a barb, bm, 3sins and me. Everyone arrives randomly and not on time which seems to be a growing habit...they start and i usually don't buff until everyone is there so Im healing normally as they take out the shades and we stop at the doorway before the first big pull to the first boss. Were sitting there because one sin hasn't got there yet and I get a whisper from another sin in the squad to buff. I'm like I was waiting for the last guy to come and she whispers back oh he is ok so I buff.. and as soon as i am done here he comes down the hall asking for buffs. magic waste having to buff again. First boss down and were at the hall for the second pull to the second boss. I get off 1 IH and the barb starts running... Im like ok u dont need that... so I just start running behind him as always and he goes past the exit to the boss and keeps collecting the mobs on the hall leading past the bigroom so im sitting there waiting for him to come back down thinking ohh ok he can take all those mobs leading to the shade. Thats how I learned my fc's that u pull to the shade and BB, the barb came back by the hall leading to the second boss and asks "where is bb?" im like ummm...ur not at shade? so i put BB up they kill the mobs from the long hall and I drop it after thinking so "so they are gonna pull these little bit to the shade?" they come back with more mobs and the bm dies. Im like umm this is suicide? i thought u pull to shade? Your gonna die. The barb and girl sin respond, "no we won't we are pro and this is the pro way to pull". Im already aggravated and i say back no this is suicide. Second boss down so its time to do the big pull leading to the 4th boss the one with the bishops. So the barb pulls the ice mob thingies up to where the boss is and skips the mobs on the left and goes straight to the right and stops there holding the mobs and one of the sins grab the left over mobs on the left so i just put bb up where I stopped lost wondering "wth they are doing"...Boss with the bishops are down so its time to do the next pull and the barb tries to tell me how he is pulling in a mocking way like idk how to be a cleric, and i say dont tell me how to do my job ur the one who is doing things different. He pulls the mobs up to the boss with the lame huge attack thingy and skips the left mobs again going straight down the walkway and he also pulls the boss and oohh guess wat? Its my fault because I wasn't agreeing with him. That he is a pro and this is the pro way. girl sin backing him up the other squad members say nothing. BB up mobs go down and they go after the boss me pissed beyond belief drop bb and run straight into the super lame attack and die... i get back boss is dead and the girl sin and the bm is dead. I rez them and I walk off and they are like "aren't you gonna heal"? And I say aren't you pro? you use potions.. So I get kicked out of the squad and Im called a nub by the barb and I said his mom for having him. Then I wc to all clerics to not go with them because they are too "pro for us" and here comes barb pming me with his lame comments of nub and i suck. And i tell him he has no regard for his squad, like it is so hard for him to have said from the beginning he were gonna pull a different way. Not everyone pulls your way and who says your way is the pro way. He is like we don't need a cleric (hmm but ur outside in snowy village chatting for a cleric). I also say it is disrespectful how people in this game talk to clerics, seriously you have to remember our jobs is to keep ur butts alive, you just damage deal we gotta know who needs wat, wat skill to use when and, some of you know ur gear sucks or u cant take much damage why do u pull aggro and then say heal when in like 2-3 hits ur down? I do know some clerics are bad Ive seen my fair share, but when is all this huge negativity gonna come to an end in this game? wheres the love? and the kindness to actually teach and not ridicule or put down ones confidence. People forget that yes as clerics we have healing abilities but we also have attacks and from what ive seen we do some hardcore damage. it is a choice to heal you it is our skills just like any other class has their own skills, we are not obligated to heal you because you've built this game a certain way where a cleric "must" be a healer because we can damage deal just as good... Rudeness is and always will be so uncalled for...(p.s. sorry for my horrible grammar its 2 a.m. and idc about punctuations and capitalizations just sleep... lol) but what do you think?