So last night I was playing on my 4100 item level trickster in castle never, and everything was going perfect. We had two tricksters, one paladin, one great weapon fighter, and one cleric.
I was using a full crowd control setup to keep the party alive then instant killing demons with the special boon that allows it.
We made it to the first boss, talgath the undying or something like that.
Everything was fine and dandy, until the super dps tr died. He instantly said my build sucks and raged on me saying use bonding. I responded I don't have bindings rank 12 nor do I need them. The whole party died and I was left soolong the boss.
To make a long story short the paladin got jealous of my survivability, and the trickster got upset because he screamed at me to go buy bindings and I said no thanks.
Then someone tried to vote kick me...(it was the tr) my damage was 36 million second highest only to the other trickster who had close to double my damage. (This was because he was using higher damage aoe spam skills that did not offer control, plus his bindings rank 10 or 11, plus he had purple relic weapons)
Everyone in party said it would not be wise to kick me, but the bonding tr kept trying and was screaming again for me to open auction house and purchase bindings rank 12, even though he had rank 10 and 11s.
So on the way to the second mini boss this tr died again. Guess what happened next... he blamed his death yet again on me not having bindings and held up everyone by screaming and trying to vote kick me.
Eventually he left. Mind you I was secoND in dps. He had 68 million damage, I had 42 million damage and the great weapon fighter has 7 million damage. Yet still somehow it's my fault he died and that things were not perfectly smooth.
So we beat the second mini boss, made it to orcus, then a hunter ranger joined the group. He was also a bonding user... as we fought orcus... everyone died but me again... the hunter ranger said we need more dps and that he doesn't use ranged attacks and left the group. So there I am soloing orcus.... LA LA LA and a Cotrol wizard joins the group.
This control wizard also was a bindings rank 12 user. I asked if they wanted to reset or let me solo orcus... they said let's reset.
Now we all go in again... everyone die's but myself and the control wizard. Orcus dies and we thanked the cw for being the only bindings rank 12 user that didn't complain, cry, or quit because I was not a bonding rank 12 user.
So can anyone tell me why the majority of bonding's users are trying to say it's the only way to play and refusing to play with other dps players that don't have bondings slotted?
I am all ears....
(Forgive the spelling issues my phone keeps changing words and punctuations)
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I just think that instead of spending hours of playing the game and learning they just pay with cash and buy everything so they have no idea how to play and all the things you learn the hard way
That being said, those guys who were 'complaining' are simply whiny nobodies that you should honestly just put on ignore, because they are asinine, and not worth your time. Sure the situation sucks, and was annoying, but end of the day they are not worth your time. So keep playing the way you want to play, and ignore the idiocy of others!
Bonding bullies can do what they please most of the time because the party feels they will suffer more without their presence...
When that is said: The sad fact is that the difference in performance with and without r12 bondings is huge. Really huge. So if you want to contribute your part in the dungeon runs and not leech xp and loot, r12 bondings has sort of become mandatory.
Bondings could do with a small nerf.
I have seen many players with good builds an augmented companions, who cut through CN mobs like a hot knife through butter. Bondings are not a necessity, especially not there.
You item level, your control setup, you high damage rating and your high survivability are a sign, that you were the one, who carried the group.
My guess is, the other TR could not cope with the fact, that you were a better player than him (considering he died several times, while you actually were the one, who kept everyone alive), or that he was not as good, as he hoped. There are these kind of players out there. Also there are some, who will not accept you in a pug group, if you do not use bondings. But those are not many, and with your GS they probably will make an exception.
Thank you by the way, for being willing to sacrifice a small amount of damage for more control. As a main tank I appreciate every player, who helps me with my task to keep a group of suicidal maniacs alive.
On the other hand the first two boss fights don't even need a tank because the bosses don't hit hard enough or you can easily dodge most of their attacks. Basically a terrible party can cakewalk all the way to Orcus. The problems you'll face will all be related to support classes. It's usually going to be your tank not holding aggro or dying at Orcus. So either your tank is poorly built (not enough arp is the usual culprit here) or has no idea how to play his class. Your healer can mitigate this a bit but that will mean giving up some debuffs/buffs. But if your tank is able to stay alive for a few minutes the blame is on the DPS.
On the other hand, I also don't see any harm in giving bonding runestones a spin if you like to experiment, especially since you seem well-geared and experienced. You could tap into a wider variety of pets and build options if you love that stuff, and if you end up still disliking them, you can easily sell them.
That TR should have been a smash button GWF by the sounds of it lol He doesn't have the skill to stay out of the HAMSTER and keep himself alive. That's not on you, that's on him. If he can't tuck and roll outta the way for an orcus hit then he needs to learn to dodge.
This argument came up with the pally bubble, people will and have forgotten how to dodge. The same holds true with all the new stats we are dropping on our toons! SH boons, Insignia, Bonding, Avenger Gear, all that just makes survivability so much better that people still don't know how to dodge. They want to face tank everything and blame someone else when they drop.
Don't let it bother you because it'll probably come up again...
Besides, what's wrong with using bondings? Like it or not, they are a core element of this game. Don't get me wrong, I do thing they are definately overpowered, but now the more difficult content is balanced to that level of power, regardless of you iLevel. 4k doesn't, mean a thing if you aren't built properly, and I get that your teammates could be insulted that you seem to favor appearances (item level) over effectiveness (bondings). A 3k TR with R12 bondings (like me) will outperform a 4k TR with an augment 100% of the time, skill aside.
For the record I stayed away from bondings for a long time because they seemed to gimmicky, and people wanted their companions to dies on purpose, but this has been fixed for a long time.
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While I would never condone rudeness and and almost never inspect people I'm running with, if you ADVERTISE yourself in LFG or other channels as a "4k TR" and choose not to use bonding stones, I certainly undertstand that people would be angry. It's like make a profile on a dating site saying you're a pro athlete when you've played three games of A-class baseball five years ago. It may be technically true but it's still misleading.
On another note.. i remember in beta everyone screaming "buy an ioun stone!" and I.. bought the first Ghost on Beholder shard before we merged into dragon. ...THEN i ran around for a week and let my ghost posess and kill every target dummy in every instance of PE. ..best.. bug ...ever. *sniffZ*.. ahhh the good ol' days.. ;D~
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Though I do switch back to the cat occasionally because its easy to stack very particular stats on an augment just for fun and because it doesn't draw unwanted aggro.
I've had it happen to me before that someone random inspecting me starts giving me "advice" on how to play my char. Back in mod 7 I believe. Patronising, but most of them meant well and they weren't to know that I prefer survivability over max DPS and had a particular race back then for RP reasons.
I'd never dream of kicking anyone just because they didn't have the appropriate pet or r12 bondings O_O.
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When regeneration worked in combat I made all of my regeneration artifacs mythic to max regen. Guess what happened? Regeneration was changed to not work in combat anymore.
Shadow demon was bis companion in pve able to hit for me in solo play 200000 critical damage on monsters. It was nerfed and it was not even as game breaking as bondings.
Many other things that were seen as standard and not 1/10th as powerful as bondings were nerfed.
Peaking chests was see as normal and it also got nerfed.
I spent more than $3000.00 us dollars on this game just to have all I desired that seemed and we were told functioned as intended changed.
Fool me one shame on you, fool me twice shame on me, fool spend 3000 bucks and constantly changing my items companions and skills like we are in perpetual beta mode - priceless literally.
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I love my Shadow Demon and still use it after the nerf, but if I had to change it the net loss would only be about 1.3 mill AD (cost + upgrading to epic) for a companion that I've used for 6 months. That's about the price of a single R11 enchant, and if you're 4k I assume you have plenty of those.
Again, that's no excuse for other players being rude and for solo content you can do as you wish, but if you ADVERTISE yourself for GROUP content as a 4k TR but don't use bonding stones, I understand that others could feel that they were mislead.
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Spare everyone the false outrage. Past 3.5k or so most of what you'd get to inflate your ilvl has no effect on how your toon performs. The "appearance" that araxelven was talking about is the 600 or so ilvl that means nothing and costs more than a set of bonding runestones. If he was really worried about nerfs he wouldn't have blown all his AD on armor kits and utility enchants. Well yeah, but that's because tanks just need to hit the DR cap and have enough recovery to go through their rotation effectively.
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1. Striker companion with 3 offensive slots.
2. Three rank 12 bondings.
3. One tank in the party.
4. At least one buff/debug cleric.
A striker companion with rank 12 bondings nearly doubles my dps. It's expensive but it is well worth it. If you don't have bondings yet that's fine. If you aren't planning on getting bondings because "you don't need them." Well then that makes you ignorant and you would be booted out of my groups as well.
As you stated that you are over 4K item level and you still don't have rank 12 bondings I can only come to the conclusion that you have no clue how mechanics in this game work.
What's your character name so I know to never group with you?
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You could spend the exact same amount of AD to to buy outright 3xR12 Bondings and gain, in my case about 13,000 stats x3 so around 40,000 total stats points which don't register on your item level. Taking in consideration he has an augment already and it's still about 26,000 stats vs 3,000. The argument that the devs will eventually nerf this doesn't hold water because Bonding stones are still enchantments that are unbound just like the rest of this R12 and he'll be able to sell them as he wishes.
Obviously it makes sense for newer players to stick with augments for a long while. There is no logical argument against using them at 4k. Rudeness is never acceptable and solo playing allows him to do anything he wants. But if he wants to do group content and advertises himself as a 4k player, then he's misleading others. Simple as that.