I ganked my character's name from a Black Dahlia Murder song, and while they're one of my favorite bands, I'm a huge fan of:
Dark Tranquillity, Heaven Shall Burn, Insomnium, Katatonia, Raintime, Be'Lakor, and Amorphis just to name a few.
My Last.fm account is http://www.last.fm/user/Forlornsky
I always tend to run into some elitist pricks from outside and within the metal circle, so hopefully this thread can be devoid of that, hah.
If this thread interests you feel free to post your Last.fm account and your compatibility with me or send me a message on Storm Legion > FuneralThirst.